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The Gentleman's Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness Paperback – February 1, 2015

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From advice on how to treat ladies, how to behave at a party, and rules for traveling abroad, this handy 19th-century guidebook will provide entertaining nuggets of wisdom

Ever wondered what to do in polite society if you find an insect in your food? Or how a gentleman should ask a lady to dance? And what on earth is the etiquette for smoking cigars? First published in 1860, this classic guide to gentlemanly behavior is a veritable mine of information and indispensable advice for aspiring gentlemen. No matter if a man finds himself at home, in the street, or in a place of amusement, he has but to leaf through this book to learn how best to behave, and indeed how not to behave. And if he can find time between his numerous invitations to balls and hunting parties, he could benefit from a perusal of the sections on gentlemanly deportment and conversational technique. Not forgetting, of course, the all-important advice on how to treat ladies, surely an integral part of any true gentleman's training.

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    Hesperus Classics
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    February 1, 2015
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    5 x 0.7 x 8 inches
  6. ISBN-10
    1843915413
  7. ISBN-13
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Cecil B. Hartley was a 19th-century biographer and etiquette expert. He is the author of The Gentleman's Book of Etiquette, The Life and Times of Colonel Daniel Boone, and The Three Mrs. Judsons.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Hesperus Classics; Reissue edition (February 1, 2015)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 256 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1843915413
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1843915416
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 6.8 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5 x 0.7 x 8 inches
  • Customer Reviews:
    4.5 4.5 out of 5 stars 293 ratings

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S james
5.0 out of 5 stars Great purchase
Reviewed in the United States on February 17, 2024
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Good book
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John
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book - Life Changer
Reviewed in the United States on November 12, 2019
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I bought this book thinking that it might be funny and helpful, but it turns out it has changed my life. Are there some outdated things in this book, yes, but the overall message of trying to be courteous to people is something that I was missing in my life. I was never trying to be mean (usually) but was I really thinking of the other person, trying to make them feel at ease in situations...not always. Now I see this as a great thing to do and it's rewarding. Do I always do this, no, but I think about this every day. This has helped with my kids too, to show them how to behave better.
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Deb G/Nest ferch Rys
4.0 out of 5 stars Courtesy and Etiquette
Reviewed in the United States on July 4, 2023
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While much is outdated as we no longer have calling hours, it was still a very interesting read into courtesy and etiquette.

Apparently putting bon bons in your pockets was something that needed to have a rule to NOT do. Also there is a fair bit about language - spelling and grammar.
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Stephen Binns
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent common sense
Reviewed in the United States on September 16, 2016
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Excellent common sense, advice and direction. No, you probably don't need instruction for assisting a lady to mount her horse or details on the subject of which gloves are appropriate for a particular function at a certain time of day BUT.... knowing the niceties of social interaction and having an idea of what to do in an awkward circumstance may be quite helpful. And, a little knowledge bolsters confidence and confidence puts others at ease which facilitates interaction and enjoyment. In short, the subject message is: "'Be nice' and sincerely nice, too; here's how to do it..." Guys.... you'll be a better "Man"- adult, responsible, kind and courteous if you read the thing and follow his advice. No, it won't be easy but try it.. others will notice.
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VC
5.0 out of 5 stars but this copy is a major disappointment.
Reviewed in the United States on September 15, 2016
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This review is not of the book, but this corrupted reprint. This printing, and the corresponding lady's version are NOT the same as the original, as content has been omitted. My boyfriend and I got these books to learn some more traditional teachings on Christian conduct, and the Christian parts were largely omitted including an entire chapter (Chapter X "Conduct in Church"). The 5 star rating is for the original, but this copy is a major disappointment.
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Nathaniel
5.0 out of 5 stars Learning to be kind and considerate on a whole new level.
Reviewed in the United States on January 29, 2017
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Some wisdom is so old that even the rich today could use much of this advice. Seriously. I think you need to balance some of the advice with where you live. Always know your audience, whom you speak to (age, gender, race, religion, region/country, language or education barriers, etc).
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Nathan
5.0 out of 5 stars Brilliant book
Reviewed in the United States on October 7, 2016
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One of the best ettiquette books I've read. Following the more victorian rules of ettiquette, but still quite usable in modern society. (If you are the more old fashioned type.)
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dan
3.0 out of 5 stars Echo from an earlier time when gentlemen assisted ladies in ...
Reviewed in the United States on November 5, 2016
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Echo from an earlier time when gentlemen assisted ladies in riding a horse side saddle, and penmanship was extremely important. It is important to be well mannered so a reminder, even if by standards not so relevant today, is desirable.
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FQ
5.0 out of 5 stars Very nice.
Reviewed in India on February 22, 2024
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You must read this to become a better human.
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Nathalie
5.0 out of 5 stars Good
Reviewed in Canada on June 16, 2021
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It is very nice to read and a delectable pleasure for every gentleman’s.
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Sebastians
5.0 out of 5 stars ... halfway through the book by now and I strongly recommend this to anyone who is considering of buying it
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 12, 2018
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I am halfway through the book by now and I strongly recommend this to anyone who is considering of buying it. There are a lot of 'obvios' things which are taught even in today's society as the basic means of politeness, yet there are more things which are neglected and necessary to be known, recognized and practiced.
In addition, I noticed that one of the comments said that in the book there are a lot of things that overlap, which is not true at all. There are several things that MIGHT appear to be overlapping IF you exclude context in which they are applicable.
In short - a great book that should be kept in your bookself and re-read from time to time.
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Linda
5.0 out of 5 stars Great great!
Reviewed in Germany on December 21, 2016
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For Men, wich feel left alone after growing up. There are more than enough tips you already know but also some of them are not just funny but also helpful.
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DS S.
5.0 out of 5 stars Really good book
Reviewed in India on May 25, 2022
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Nicely elabrated
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